You are not alone in your journey of childlessness
Support for women who are childless by circumstances beyond their control
- Are you looking to connect with someone who truly understands how it feels to be childless by circumstance?
- Are you feeling alone, unsure how to move forward from the pain and grief you’re feeling right now?
- Are you determined to reclaim your body and your life?
Everyone experiences childlessness differently, but I know first-hand know how much it hurts, and how hard it is to process. It’s so important that you find the right support to help you process your emotions, find new purpose and move through the void.
What does childless mean?
Childless describes someone who would love to have children but can’t, for reasons beyond their control.
This is different to being child-free, which is the choice to not have children.
Childlessness is full of emotions and heart ache, and can be so very lonely to process. I experienced all of this, and now support women who are on the same path.
My childlessness story
My parents didn’t have me until they were in their 30s, which at that time was considered late in life. My parents were always much older than my friend’s parents, and I promised myself I’d never be an old parent.
I tried to fall pregnant naturally, then with IVF, then with a naturopath specialising in fertility. I was struggling with stage IV endometriosis and adenomyosis for many years, and eventually had to have emergency surgery to remove my uterus and ovaries.
I was devastated. My purpose for existing had been taken away from me. I felt like I had failed as a woman, a daughter, and a partner. I quickly became depressed and had to have extended leave from work.
After my surgery I asked my gynaecologist, my doctor, and the Centre for Advanced Reproductive Endosurgery if there were any support groups for women who can’t have children and was laughed at. My Doctor referred me to a psychologist for my depression, but the psychologist had 3 kids so I knew that she could not understand what I was feeling – and it didn’t help.
I knew I couldn’t continue to (not) function as I was, and researched my way around what I should do. Luckily at this stage I was already studying kinesiology, and I strongly believe it was all the emotional, physical and energetic body balances I got to do as part of the course that I wouldn’t be where I am today – happy to be alive.
While on leave from work, I took the opportunity to evaluate my whole life. If I wasn’t meant to be a mum, then what am I meant to be? I don’t know if I’ve found the answer yet, but I’m living a life with meaning and purpose, and trust that this will lead me to it.
All I know is that there needs to be better and more support for women who can’t have kids. No one should be left to feel like they’re thrown into a black void.
Finding my purpose after childlessness
I help women who are struggling with the emotions and heart ache related to not being able to have children, to move through this void and find a way to live a fulfilling life by teaching them skills to heal themselves, find new purpose, and achieve a new future (without children).
In other words?
I’m in the business of RE-empowering you.
Childless Support RE-Empowerment
I’ll give you the supportive space where your feelings of loss, uncertainty, and the quest for a meaningful life are deeply understood. I don’t just acknowledge your struggle; I embrace it as a path to re-empowerment and healing.
I combine my multi-disciplinary training in Kinesiology, Hypnotherapy, Tapping/EFT, NLP, and other forms of transformational mind-body energetic work to support you.
Together we can explore ways you can reclaim control over your body, your emotions, and your future. You can transform your pain into something positive. .
I offer 1-on-1 coaching sessions at my practice in Winmalee, or Online.
Are you ready to start your RE-empowerment journey?
Make an initial 90 minute appointment to meet with me in my Springwood practice or on Zoom.
